When confronted with problems or stressful situations, we call moms or sisters to vent out as soon as possible. Do they ever give any useful advice? Nah, they just see the circumstances from their life glasses, judge our decisions and move on with the day. To make it worse, the problem is discussed further with the other sister in a worried gossipy tone making senseless accusations on our life, spouses, career, money blah blah blah.
I am not saying it doesn't help. But we never really reach to the point of solving it. Even if they say the right thing, some times its not the main sentence. All of the learning reasoning gets lost in our frustration.
There was some feud with a relative, no matter how much how many times it was brought up in conversations, it always ended up me having a more bitter heart. Just won't go away. A whole lot of other arguments piled up and just made my heart heavier sore to the point it felt like there was so much tangling.
Now we have to untangle our life's knots. Memories play a vital role in our happiness. You don't want to avoid anyone when you walk into a room. If the list is long, the weddings can be unbearable. Life can't be easily steered through unless you get rid of all of it. Make it a clean slate. How do you really do it? Well, the answer is accepting their flaws. No one will ever really pull you out, people like to gossip and burn fuel. To understand our own nature, we have to look deeply, introspect our soul and see what is really good for us in the long run.
If your mother in law is bothering you or your husband won't take out time for you, all you have to do is talk to them or just accept or move on. Bitching with others, changing whatsapp pics will just make your life more painfully aggressive. In fact, even when you tell people about your pain they fail to empathize let alone apologize or help. It will affect your personality,looks, kids, house vibe and relationships. Why suffer?
So instead of talking to all your friends on whatsapp, try seeing one b k shivani video everyday. It makes a huge difference. If you have anger issues, try sadhguru videos. Avoid all those US suggested therapist or self proclaimed relationship expert youtubers.
After a week of those videos, trust me you will feel so much better and lighter. You will be forgiving people, understanding their point of view their life and it will all be breezy.
Do try.
NAMASTE.
I am not saying it doesn't help. But we never really reach to the point of solving it. Even if they say the right thing, some times its not the main sentence. All of the learning reasoning gets lost in our frustration.
There was some feud with a relative, no matter how much how many times it was brought up in conversations, it always ended up me having a more bitter heart. Just won't go away. A whole lot of other arguments piled up and just made my heart heavier sore to the point it felt like there was so much tangling.
Now we have to untangle our life's knots. Memories play a vital role in our happiness. You don't want to avoid anyone when you walk into a room. If the list is long, the weddings can be unbearable. Life can't be easily steered through unless you get rid of all of it. Make it a clean slate. How do you really do it? Well, the answer is accepting their flaws. No one will ever really pull you out, people like to gossip and burn fuel. To understand our own nature, we have to look deeply, introspect our soul and see what is really good for us in the long run.
If your mother in law is bothering you or your husband won't take out time for you, all you have to do is talk to them or just accept or move on. Bitching with others, changing whatsapp pics will just make your life more painfully aggressive. In fact, even when you tell people about your pain they fail to empathize let alone apologize or help. It will affect your personality,looks, kids, house vibe and relationships. Why suffer?
So instead of talking to all your friends on whatsapp, try seeing one b k shivani video everyday. It makes a huge difference. If you have anger issues, try sadhguru videos. Avoid all those US suggested therapist or self proclaimed relationship expert youtubers.
After a week of those videos, trust me you will feel so much better and lighter. You will be forgiving people, understanding their point of view their life and it will all be breezy.
Do try.
NAMASTE.
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