Last month I saw these few inspiring videos on relationships by b k shivani. I couldn't stop raving about the peace and stability they brought. Then after 2 weeks, it was the old me popping up. When we listen to something motivational, it does hit us, we affirm to its positivism. Nothing is ever absorbed deep in. So we have to keep reminding ourselves of the change we want to be.
In our heart, we all know the right things right words right expressions. How our mind reacts to situations, how we interpret them is a whole different reality. We are all spoiled brats acting like nothing is ever gonna get to us but eventually almost all our actions come back to bite us.
Fake relationships are complicated. That is why all our relationships are complicated. We pretend to communicate, we pretend to care while we gossip. We don't understand people or the reasons, we just pass judgments. There is no whatsoever effort of even getting to the core of their anger, aloofness,rudeness,greediness. I am not saying being saint is the ultimate goal. Its just we all need more compassion for our fellow riders.
My life is pretty simple, grounded loving in laws who are just different. When they started expecting a bit of me and I couldn't open up enough, problems rose. Pretentiousness started. Trust me putting up a fake face when inside you are just looking to escape is the worst. Its better to do what you really want. Its better to be natural. If you can enjoy and make peace with the surroundings, that is the best. After all, peace is within us so we shouldn't really be bothered by variables. Haha but since most of us are not is that deep state of acceptance, lets amend the surroundings tactfully to get the same modified version of peace.
Anyways like always point is lets not get lost. So keep track of your self improvement. When you feel like you are losing peace, start seeing the same sadhguru shivani videos again. Jot your memory. Its through constant reminders that we train our brain to shut up the chatter. We don't have to be nice to people to be social or appreciated, its for our own good peaceful life. Meditation is the final answer to life's people's problems.
Less drama, more life.
NAMASTE
In our heart, we all know the right things right words right expressions. How our mind reacts to situations, how we interpret them is a whole different reality. We are all spoiled brats acting like nothing is ever gonna get to us but eventually almost all our actions come back to bite us.
Fake relationships are complicated. That is why all our relationships are complicated. We pretend to communicate, we pretend to care while we gossip. We don't understand people or the reasons, we just pass judgments. There is no whatsoever effort of even getting to the core of their anger, aloofness,rudeness,greediness. I am not saying being saint is the ultimate goal. Its just we all need more compassion for our fellow riders.
My life is pretty simple, grounded loving in laws who are just different. When they started expecting a bit of me and I couldn't open up enough, problems rose. Pretentiousness started. Trust me putting up a fake face when inside you are just looking to escape is the worst. Its better to do what you really want. Its better to be natural. If you can enjoy and make peace with the surroundings, that is the best. After all, peace is within us so we shouldn't really be bothered by variables. Haha but since most of us are not is that deep state of acceptance, lets amend the surroundings tactfully to get the same modified version of peace.
Anyways like always point is lets not get lost. So keep track of your self improvement. When you feel like you are losing peace, start seeing the same sadhguru shivani videos again. Jot your memory. Its through constant reminders that we train our brain to shut up the chatter. We don't have to be nice to people to be social or appreciated, its for our own good peaceful life. Meditation is the final answer to life's people's problems.
Less drama, more life.
NAMASTE
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