Okay I know being single is great, I know you are not married and you get to go to pub, you have an apparently cooler lifestyle. Fine but why so self defensive, why pick on others' statements. Didn't they ask about boyfriends in teens so why take it like an attack now. One of my friends put her status as something like why do people have problems with single women, we are living our life others are not. Then some other 2 single friends of her liked the status and said go friend go. Hmm she is in live-in relationship already, i mean how much different is it from marriage these days and then complaints of being tormented by society to be unmarried. I have been in both, live in for two and a half year and then married the same guy. Its been six months. Nothing changes except general meddling from in-laws and occasional over happy friendly visits.
But the point here is single, like no boyfriend nothing in place. Still come on its not bad at all. So why play the part where you are so frustrated by society putting pressure on you. Did you give in to the pressure when they said no sex or no booze. I get it everyone wants love commitment not for soulmate reasons but for companionship. Still its you who is upset why blame it on others. We are not even concerned or judging you or as a fact thinking about you. Just don't get it why they want pity card for them. Why do even want to be questioned or noticed?
Not all of them do this but most of them portray themselves like coolest happiest creatures enjoying their beach house disturbed by society birds pooping on deck. Why why why ? Do you want us to admit your life is better ? Well why would we, we have something to get up to and its our life, why would we rate it less than yours, we are not sadists or on verge of depression.
I have major sister issues and the only reason why I got married was because in india, your elder sister has to get married for you to get into queue. And she got us to do that, but then she just refuses to get married now which i am okk with till i have to live with my in-laws on vacations or after their retirement. To just add to the anger of my husband, she started making fun of how married uncle he is, he probably hates her the most. She forced him for loss of 3 lakh rupees and 15 day holidays with relatives. Anyways see thats the point, you are at even more pathetic stage, u don't know if you are compatible enough, you don't know if you will ever be married, you know it all and still want pity sympathy. So my question is why so fency, why can't you just get on with ur lives and stop making fun of married ones or fighting every couple who just asks whats going on?
Either you loathe your single life or we have one attention seeker here.
But the point here is single, like no boyfriend nothing in place. Still come on its not bad at all. So why play the part where you are so frustrated by society putting pressure on you. Did you give in to the pressure when they said no sex or no booze. I get it everyone wants love commitment not for soulmate reasons but for companionship. Still its you who is upset why blame it on others. We are not even concerned or judging you or as a fact thinking about you. Just don't get it why they want pity card for them. Why do even want to be questioned or noticed?
Not all of them do this but most of them portray themselves like coolest happiest creatures enjoying their beach house disturbed by society birds pooping on deck. Why why why ? Do you want us to admit your life is better ? Well why would we, we have something to get up to and its our life, why would we rate it less than yours, we are not sadists or on verge of depression.
I have major sister issues and the only reason why I got married was because in india, your elder sister has to get married for you to get into queue. And she got us to do that, but then she just refuses to get married now which i am okk with till i have to live with my in-laws on vacations or after their retirement. To just add to the anger of my husband, she started making fun of how married uncle he is, he probably hates her the most. She forced him for loss of 3 lakh rupees and 15 day holidays with relatives. Anyways see thats the point, you are at even more pathetic stage, u don't know if you are compatible enough, you don't know if you will ever be married, you know it all and still want pity sympathy. So my question is why so fency, why can't you just get on with ur lives and stop making fun of married ones or fighting every couple who just asks whats going on?
Either you loathe your single life or we have one attention seeker here.
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